| | |

When You Seek Vengeance: Psalm 109

When You Seek Vengeance: Psalm 109

“May his days be few; may another take his place of leadership.” (Psalm 109:8 NIV)

In a world full of injustices and wrongdoings, it’s easy to seek vengeance. When someone has wronged us or treated us unfairly, our instinct is to retaliate and make things right in our own eyes. The desire for revenge is a natural human emotion, but as Christians, we are called to handle conflicts differently.

The Problem with Seeking Vengeance

While seeking vengeance might feel satisfying in the moment, it often leads to more problems down the road. Holding grudges and seeking revenge can bring bitterness into our hearts and damage relationships beyond repair.

The Bible warns against taking matters into our own hands:

“Do not take revenge, my dear friends but leave room for God’s wrath. For it is written ‘It is mine to avenge; I will repay’, says the Lord.” (Romans 12:19 NIV)

When we seek revenge, we are not trusting God’s sovereignty over all situations and people. We are trying to control outcomes instead of trusting that God will ultimately make things right in His timing.

The Example of David in Psalm 109

In Psalm 109, David expresses his feelings of betrayal by an enemy who has spoken against him with deceitful tongues (verse 2). He asks God for justice against his oppressor:

“Appoint someone wicked to oppose my enemy; let an accuser stand at their right hand… May they be blotted out of the book of life and not be listed with the righteous.” (Psalm 109:6,13 NIV)

David’s words might seem harsh to us, but they reveal his honest emotions and struggles against seeking personal revenge. He recognized that his enemy’s true battle was with God, not himself.

David also trusts in God’s righteousness over his own vindication:

“For he [God] stands at the right hand of the needy one, to save their lives from those who would condemn them.” (Psalm 109:31 NIV)

We too must recognize that our battles are ultimately with spiritual forces and not people:

“For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in heavenly realms.” (Ephesians 6:12 NIV)

The Better Way: Forgiveness and Love

So what is the alternative to seeking vengeance? The Bible teaches us to forgive those who wrong us:

“Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” (Colossians 3:13 NIV)

Practical Steps for Forgiveness:

  • Acknowledge your hurt: Be honest about how you feel towards your offender. Choose vulnerability over bitterness.
  • Give grace instead of revenge: Recognize that everyone makes mistakes; offer compassion instead of condemnation.
  • Show empathy instead of anger: Try to see the situation through your enemy’s eyes. They might have been hurt by you in the past and acted out of woundedness.
  • Pray for your enemy: Ask God to bless and transform your offender. Pray for their well-being, even if they have wronged you.

The Ultimate Example of Forgiveness:

We can also look to Jesus as our ultimate example of forgiveness. As He was being crucified, He prayed for his torturers:

“Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.” (Luke 23:34 NIV)

If Jesus could forgive those who were responsible for His death, surely we can extend forgiveness towards those who harm us.

Can Psalm 70 Provide Help in Times of Seeking Vengeance?

Can Psalm 70 provide help in times of seeking vengeance? This powerful psalm can serve as a cry for help in psalm 70. It acknowledges the human desire for justice and restoration, while emphasizing the need to leave revenge in God’s hands. Turning to this psalm can provide solace and guidance in navigating complex emotions, allowing individuals to seek spiritual support during challenging times.


Psalms 109 and other scriptures remind us that seeking personal vengeance is not God’s best plan for us. Our role is to forgive others as God has forgiven us and trust in His sovereignty over every situation.

The path of forgiveness is not an easy one but it is a powerful way to break free from bitterness and find healing. When we show love instead of hate towards our enemies, we allow Jesus to shine through our lives and bring light into darkness.

Share this article

Similar Posts